Synology
Synology Photos
I use the Photos Mobile app on iOS and it works pretty well. Since I want it to work away from home, I set the IP address for my Synology to the Tailscale IP. This means I need to have Tailscale on for it to work.
Upgrading the RAM
Did this so I could run Home Assistant in a VM. Used the serial number / model recommendation from Reddit and it worked!